When troubles don't let u down...

Ladies and Gentleman,

There are two kinds of people in this world.

1. Those who bend down and break when they are not able to withstand, the pressure and the negative energy the world tries to push towards them.
2. And there are others that despite the calamaties they face, the troubles they gather, the hurdles the see...they stand steadfast and strong.

I heard it somewhere once and i like this quote a lot...'We are who we choose to be'. Meaning No one can entitle, enlist and specify a role in life for us. Be it your ambitions, career goals, love or a simple day to day life. 

Don't let others decide a path for you like a doctor or an engineer or a grocer or a baker. 

The destiny (I'm a believer) has already been decided / written by God. We are the decision makers that choose different paths to get to it.

So supposing if God has already written that how can you let another human decide your fate. 

Be What you want to be, you can be a 'King' if that is what you desire and want it most passionately. Now you might think that I'm just trying to jot down some words to being a motivational speaker/blogger whatever. I am just using the words i feel and the words i want pass to you guys.

And this is no joke, you wanna be a king. This is a world of democracy, go join political sciences and show it to the people you are worth it who knows you could run for elections. Become a President.

So, Nothing is impossible as long as the person himself does not stop believing in it. And by 'IT' I mean his/her passion that goal, that drive,that energy that makes you want to get up early morning everyday and makes you feel more alive than ever.

The Next thing and the most important one that could become and obstacle in what you want to be is ... 'The World'

Now you'd say The world!!? How?

See the world in simple can prove to be your greatest ally or your greatest foe depending on how you take it.

The World has only these supreme rules, 

1. The world doesn't like better.
2. The world doesn't stand better.
3. The world will not let be better.

By now you must be be thinking, 'How come the world doesn't want better? We are witnessing better changes everyday, sustainable growth, futuristic development in technology.

But my dear people; by the world I mean not the physical or aesthetic world. By the world, I mean its populace, it's people. Yep they don't want better.

  Now now again, by people I don't mean all the people, we have categories of those like (low, medium, high) haha...

 Reminds me of something my mom tells me. She says, "Hana not all the five fingers on a hand are the same, hence not all the people are the same"

 Besides a few of those that support you and are as close to you as can be and those that actually care.

There are those people out there who are a part of this so called 'The world' that no matter how much you be good to them, how much you succeed they will neither be happy to see your success, nor would they ever want you to be better. They might come and stand in line to rejoice if you do, but they will never be there to support you. Because no matter how good you are,  to them,  you'll just be another comptetion another hurdle, another source of envy who they can see, but cannot stand...

For such people my dear friends you must stand. And you must stand steadfast for your goals, to your ambitions, your desires, your dreams and all that you've ever wanted.

Do not be afraid, you are not going to lose if you fall down but If you let yourself be put down by this 'World' that is when you'll truly lose.

I'll be ending this article on one of my favourite dialogues which i just remembered while writing a few lines above. It was from the Movie 'Rocky Balboa 3' . When Rocky tries to train his son into boxing and his son is upset that he cannot do it. 

He says “Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard ya hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done! Now if you know what you’re worth then go out and get what you’re worth."

So people don't sit down, get out there and earn your keep.

T.C.

Hana